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​BDSM & Kink Support

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Exploring BDSM, kink, or alternative sexual dynamics can be exciting, but it can also bring up shame, guilt, or anxiety especially in a world that stigmatizes sexual expression. Therapy provides a safe, confidential space to process your experiences, explore your desires, and understand how past experiences or trauma may influence your sexual identity and relationships.

 

In therapy, we help you:

  • Process emotions related to shame, guilt, or fear around sexual expression

  • Explore patterns in relationships, consent, and boundaries

  • Build self-acceptance and confidence in your identity and desires

  • Navigate challenges within kink or BDSM dynamics in a safe and healthy way

 

Our goal is to support you in embracing your sexual identity and desires without judgment, helping you cultivate self-understanding, safety, and emotional well-being.

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Schedule your session: [Schedule Now]

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Check insurance plans: Visit our [Locations I Support] tab and select your state to see the insurances we accept.

LOCATION

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We are a 100% remote psychotherapy practice, serving clients in Connecticut, Maine, Nevada, New Jersey, and New York.


Sessions are conducted via secure telehealth, so you can access care from anywhere within these states.

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Office Hours & Scheduling

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Sunday–Thursday, 8:00 AM – 2:00 AM (EST)


Times vary by day. View real-time availability and book online.

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Please note: Scheduling online does not guarantee confirmation.


All sessions are subject to approval, and Dr. Jessica Thalhamer may decline or reschedule at her discretion.
See the Self-Scheduling Policy on the booking page for details.

CONTACT

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​Call

631-834-8647​

702-766-4334

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For emergencies, contact 911 immediately or go to your local hospital.

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Coaching and spiritual services are offered through Self Compassion LLC and are separate from psychotherapy services provided by Vitality Counseling LCSW PC

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​​CRISIS SUPPORT RESOURCES

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​​​Suicide & Crisis Lifeline

Call 988

 

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline

800-273-8255

 

NAMI

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